Something I Said I’d Never Do

Hi Scott,

I am 28 and and earning $70,000 a year. I am also $10,000 in debt because I did something I said I would never do: took out a personal loan. I have been desperately trying to pay it off, but it seems with every fortnight’s pay something comes up -- my car needed servicing, my bed broke, and now I have to buy an expensive bridesmaid’s dress. I feel overwhelmed, like I am never going to get out of debt.

Gemma

Hi Gemma,

You haven’t actually asked me a question, so I can only assume you are wanting me to:

a) Listen empathetically as you vent about your first world problems, while I gently stroke your hair and whisper “it’ll be okay, honey”.

Or,

b) Give you a kick up the backside.

I’m going with option B.Y

ou say you’re “desperately” trying to get out of debt, but I’m calling your bulldust.

Make a freaking decision!You’re either totally committed to getting out of debt, or you’re not. It’s this indecision that’s causing your overwhelm.

Once you’ve made the decision that you absolutely, positively will get out of debt, the rest is a cakewalk:

If your bed breaks (not a bad problem to have in your 20s by the way!), all you do is lay the mattress on the floor until you can afford to buy a new one. Simple!

If you’re asked to be a bridesmaid, you tell the bride that you can’t afford it. Or tell her that it’s such an honour that you’ve decided to work overtime for the next 12 weeks to pay for it (and make your additional extra debt repayments).

Here’s the thing that no one tells you about getting out of debt: it’ll build a confidence in you that will change the course of your life. Just ask Chris.

Scott

I Got This!

Hi Scott,

I spent my twenties telling myself I could never afford to own a home, so I just spent my money. Then I started reading your stuff. When I saw that even singles on the minimum wage could make a go of it, I kicked myself in the backside. I got a better job where I could put in heaps of overtime, I sold my car, and I set about paying off my personal loans (plural, because I was still paying for the car before it too!). I stopped using drugs (all of them, massive effort) and I saved.

I found a sense of self-worth, pride and confidence. I met an amazing woman, and we bought a house together. We have a small mortgage on a beautiful home, and no other debt. We own shares (something else I thought was beyond my reach) and we have cash in the bank.

We will pay our home off just after my 45th birthday -- I am 33 now. We got married two months ago, we have been on holidays together (I never had money to travel before) and now I am moving into a new career over a period of a couple of years because it is time to spend my days doing something I enjoy rather than something that pays me enough to survive. And all this in just under five years, with so much time left to achieve more. Thanks mate, you changed my life.

Chris

Hi Chris,

I didn’t do anything.  That’s what happens when you give up your excuses, and fully commit. Well done!

Thank-you for reading.

Scott

I won $250,000 on a Gameshow

Hi!

Recently, I was lucky enough to win $250,000 on a gameshow! Since winning, I have paid off a loan I owed my dad and and put the rest into our mortgage -- the house is valued at $320,000. I have just bought a new car and paid for it out of my home loan. The balance is now $95,000. We intend to start a family inside the next 12 months and are scouting for investment properties (we earn $110,000 combined). I am very excited but also confused about whether buying another property is wise at this point in our lives.

Mike

Hi Mike

Congratulations for winning Family Feud and killing Channel Ten (just kidding). If I were in your shoes, and planning a family within 12 months, I’d focus on three things:  First, boost your pre-tax super contributions to 15 per cent of your gross income.  Second, save up three months of living expenses in a Mojo account. Third, take a baseball bat to your mortgage. If you can be debt free by the time your first kid goes to school, you’ll have dramatically less Family Feuds.

Scott

Pregnant and Dumped

Scott,

My husband left me two months ago. I am 24 weeks pregnant with our third child. Since having our first child five years ago, I have been on maternity leave, doing home duties and working one day a week, as it was agreed I would stay home while he worked. Now he is gone and I have all the bills to pay. He is not paying child support as yet, so I am reliant on my Centrelink payments and one day of work. I am a smart woman who just wants a financially secure future for myself and my children. Maybe it is just ‘baby brain’ but I honestly do not know where to start.

Kate

Kate,

I can’t imagine the stress you’re under. Given you’re in the final trimester, you need to focus on just a couple of things: close off your joint bank accounts and credit cards, and apply for a Child Support assessment with the Department of Human Services to see how much your ex-husband needs to pay you. Then, seek legal advice immediately.

Scott

I Got This!

Hi Scott,

I have suffered with chronic alcoholism and drug addiction my whole life. Father not present, nor any real family. Mum (the main provider) died suddenly when I was in my mid-twenties. Never really holding down a job, I faced being homeless. Very scary times.

But I took control. I cleaned the family home and rented it out. This gave me space to go to rehab. I was there for 18 months and re-learnt everything -- how to live, how to look after myself, how to be accountable -- and I have been 100% sober now for five years. I also went to TAFE, and secured a role in sales at a contact centre. I have held that job for three years now and have been promoted to managing a team of sales reps.

Earning around $80,000, I have some money to invest, so I have got onto your newsletter and am learning more each day. I now have $40,000 in my ‘Grow’ account and an investment portfolio worth $27,000. I am proud to say I have just built my brand-new home, and am renting out a room to subsidise costs. I have also been overseas six times in the last two years. I took control of a very scary situation at a very uncertain time in my life. I am now living the life of my dreams -- a far, far cry from the person I was when my mum died.

Bill

Hi Bill,

You’re a shining example of how anyone can tread their own path. Your mother would be proud. You got this!

Scott

Am I Going to Lose Everything?

Hi Scott,

About 18 months ago I put a $15,000 deposit on an off-the-plan apartment. The idea was to sell my home for the same amount as the apartment and move in. But I have not sold my home and it is now worth less than the apartment. I have been caught by the development finishing six months early, combined with a flat housing market in Perth.

I asked for an extension and got 30 days from settlement, but after that I get penalised. So can I legally get out of this deal, or can they just bankrupt me? I only have my house, my car and a very little super, as I had a stroke in 2002 and used my super then. I also get easily bamboozled due to the stroke.

I work two days a week and am on a disability pension, earning approximately $44,000 per annum. I am 71 (and single), so my ability to get a loan or pay one off are minimal. Please help me -- I cannot see any way out except one, and that would leave a big mess for my children. I would not do that.

Jenny

Hi Jenny

You’re definitely in the dung ... I just don’t know how deep you are.Now, some people believe they can walk away from an off-the-plan development and only lose their deposit.

Yet that’s not always the case.

Ultimately it depends on what’s in the contract you signed, and how desperate the developer is … and given Perth apartment prices are cratering at the moment, I’d wager they’re as desperate as I was at my high-school formal.

The worst-case scenario is that your developer swallows your deposit, hits you with financial penalties for not settling, and then sues you for the losses of on-selling your apartment (when they eventually find a buyer).

But that’s all in the future, maybe.

Let’s you and I just deal with the next 30 days.

It’s highly unlikely you’ll be able to settle in the next month, and it’s also highly unlikely you’ll get bridging finance. So here’s my advice: see a lawyer immediately.

Let me be crystal clear, Jenny. Put down the newspaper. Pick up the telephone. Call a lawyer.

Have them review your contract, then ask their advice on mounting a case for being released from the contract due to your impaired judgement.

What are you doing still reading, Jenny?

Get on the phone. Now!

Scott

Dr Phil, Where Are You?

Hi Scott,

I am 27 and newly married. My husband earns over double what I do, and he does not like the idea of combining our finances. Instead, things are split down the middle, though he saves over twice the amount I am able to. Is there a way to start broaching the Barefoot ideals without having huge arguments? I am really unsettled by it.

Emma

Hi Emma,

I actually read your question out to Liz ... and she shut me down as only a wife could: “Honey, you’re not Dr Phil ... just stick to the finance.”

Bam! That’s why I love my wife -- she gives me brutally honest feedback, and most of the time I don’t even have to ask for it!

Still, I’m going to sidestep her sledge and answer your question. Reason being, I’ve had thousands of conversations with couples, and the number one predictor of staying together is whether or not they share their finances. (Okay, so another predictor would be if hubby is shagging his secretary, or if wifey is an ice addict … but you get my drift.)

It makes sense when you think about it: How do you think his plan is going to work when you leave work to raise kids? Seriously, how can you plan a life together if you don’t share your money?

Here’s what I’ve worked out: the person who doesn’t want to share has control issues (that would be your husband) -- and the other eventually learns to adapt. A study released this week by Finder.com.au found that nearly one in three Aussies keeps at least some of their spending a secret from their partner.

No winners there.

So, what should you do?

I’d suggest you have your husband read my book, The Barefoot Investor: The Only Money Guide You’ll Ever Need.

Yes, that’s a blatant plug, but there’s a good reason: I’ve structured the steps around having Barefoot Date Nights where you work on your finances as a team (with wine and garlic bread in your hand).

And if he refuses?

Well, far be it for me to play Dr Phil, but I’d suggest you take a leaf out of my wife’s book, and tell it to him straight.

Good luck.

Scott

Rich Girl Loses it All

This week we’re going to do something a little different.

See, right now, the newspapers are full of the tragedy. It’s desperately sad and heartbreaking and futile all at the same time: but the fact is, none of us can control the acts of terrorists.

So this week I’m going to focus on things you can control. I’m going to introduce you to three Barefooters — readers of this column. Each of them reached a turning point in their lives — a teenage rich kid who suddenly found herself homeless, a go-getting bloke whose financial advisor almost ruined him, and a woman who stared down her violent husband.

But the real story … is what they each chose to do next.

Rich Girl Loses it All

Courtney grew up an only child in a middle-class family.

By her own admission she was extremely spoilt, always getting whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted.

Yet when her parents separated, when she was 13, her childhood ended and things unravelled — quickly:

Courtney went to live with her father in January of that year. Tragically he suddenly and unexpectedly died in September of the same year. So she moved in with her mother.

Courtney knew that one of the reasons for her parents’ break-up was her mother’s drinking. Yet what she didn’t know was that in the year since the separation her mother had turned into a full-blown alcoholic, drinking from the moment she woke up until she passed out.

A few weeks after Courtney moved in, her mother abruptly took her keys and kicked her out. At age 14, she was homeless. For the next five years Courtney spent time on the streets, in refuges, couch-hopping, and in and out of government housing.

At 19, with $1.92 in her bank account, Courtney reached crisis point. Here’s what she did next.

“I went back to school and completed Year 12. I surprised myself when I got good enough marks to get into uni, where I’m currently studying commerce. I can only do it part time, because I work to support myself. Along my journey, I have read every single one of your newspaper columns. I have 412 of them marked ‘financial’ in case I have to re-read any of them. I feel like Barefoot is the financial parent I never had.”

The Go-Getter

Mick was always a go-getter.

He didn’t want to live an average life like other people. And the key to living the life of his dreams was to build wealth, so he hooked up with an equally go-getting advisor.

Over the next few years, Mick’s advisor took him down the ‘borrow to invest’ path, and go-gettered him from one investment turd to another.

He was losing money. The interest payments were crippling. The stress began to jeopardise his marriage. Mick had reached crisis point. Here’s what he did next:

“One day, while up in the mountains (must have been the fresh air), the penny finally dropped. My wife and I decided there and then to become debt free and take control of our lives.

“The first thing we did was dump the adviser. Then we offloaded the crap he’d signed us up to — the margin loan, the costly managed share funds. And then we paid off our house — in three years — and began stashing cash into super, into an index fund, and buying shares in low-cost index funds.

“Until we became debt free, I had no idea just how much of a burden it is. The best advice I could give anyone is to follow the Barefoot principles and KEEP IT SIMPLE. We all work too hard for our money to blow it by making mistakes. Funny, but through my mistakes I found financial freedom.”

He Has No Hold Over Me Anymore

Sandy was happily married for 10 years, and had two lovely children.

Three years ago she was sitting in the backyard when her husband announced, “I want a divorce”.

Like every woman who faces this situation, she was terrified:

“How am I going to support my kids?”

That fear stopped her from ‘rattling the cage’ for the next two-and-a-half years.

It kept her from having the courage to leave the house (or boot her husband out). And whenever she tried to broach the idea of finalising a property settlement he would threaten to not pay child support. Sandy knew he was controlling her. She knew she had to stand up and take care of herself. And then one night he became violent.

Here’s what she did next:

“It wasn’t until I read Scott’s book that I fully believed I could do this on my own. Now I’m taking back control. True to form, once my husband wasn’t getting his own way, the child support ceased. However, I’ve now sorted my buckets and I’m days away from the property settlement being finalised, which will allow me to purchase a home on my own.

“I’m also looking at investing for the future for me and the children. My plan is to be financial independent and not reliant upon what child support he deems fit to pay. I used to rely on it, but now — if I receive it — it will be a bonus that goes into the Grow Bucket for my children’s education.”

You Have More Power Than You Think

What I love about these stories is that they’re so different, but they share one similarity: each person found themselves in deep trouble and then took control of their situation — and changed it.

Over to you.

Tread Your Own Path!

You Ripper!

Barefoot,

I just wanted to tell you about my latest Barefoot Date Night. Like you advised I rang the bank, followed your script, and they reduced my rate from 5.35% to 4.54%, all in a six minute phone call!  I was sceptical at first, but now I'm over the moon on the outcome of the phone call. Thanks again mate!

Daniel

Hi Daniel,

Well done man!

And to encourage everyone else to follow your lead, here’s my “$22,064 Phone Call Script” from my book:

You: Hello, my account number is ______. I’ve been with you for ___ years, but I’ve applied to refinance with UBank. Their rate is ____ per cent, which is a full ___ per cent cheaper than you’re charging me. Given our longstanding relationship, I’d like you to match the offer—or send me the forms I need to switch to UBank.

Bank rep: One moment, please.(You’re bluffing, of course. However, the bank’s sales team have strict targets, backed by incentives, that they have to meet—one of which is giving profitable customers discounts to stop them leaving.)

Bank rep: We can’t match the rate you have quoted. However, we understand you are a valuable customer, so we would like to offer you a 0.15 per cent discount.

You: That’s not good enough. I’ve already got conditional approval … so in order to stay I need at least a 0.5 per cent discount. Could you please speak to your supervisor? I’m happy to wait.

Bank rep (a full six minutes later): On reviewing your case, we can offer you that 0.5 per cent discount on your current rate.

You: Brilliant! Please send me an email confirming the new rate and confirming that it will be applied as of start of business tomorrow.

Scott

Reminder: I first wrote about this years ago and highlighted the low fees. Today there are better bank accounts on offer. How do I know? Because my readers constantly email me about them! So before you do anything, google the best accounts on offer now.

Barefoot Confessions

Hi Scott,

I am 25 years old, newly married. I am the worst spender I know. I have about $8k debt that my husband doesn't know about.We want to start a family but I'm worried I’ll get stuck as a stay at home mum and be in debt forever. I can’t control my money. I want to pay off my debt and get my finances into order but I don't know where to start. I really need your help.

Jessica

Hi Jessica,

Where do you start?

You’ve already started, by admitting what’s going on in your head. Now you need to share it with someone who can help you -- your husband. The way you’ll get out of this mess is to fess up to the man you married, and tell him what you wrote to me: that you’re worried about being stuck as a stay at home mum, that you’re depressed, and that you self medicate by spending (okay, you didn’t say that -- I did).

The good thing is that you’re fronting up to him with an $8,000 debt. That’s not a lot of dough in the scheme of things. If you work together as a team, you can pay it off by the end of the year.

However, let me give you this warning: if you continue to keep this a secret from your husband, things are going to get a lot worse. Your debts will grow in line with your depression. The truth is that your current financial situation is a symptom of what’s going on in your head.

Luckily for you, you have a bloke that loves you, and wants to help you.

Let him.

Scott

My Sister is Scamming My Dad

Hi Scott,

My dad has gone guarantor on a loan for my sister and her partner, so she could buy a property worth over $1 million. I know she has at least two other properties that dad probably does not know about; all of which she could have sold to overcome her "financial woes". She has been conning the family out of money for years. It is highly likely dad will not outlast the life of the loan. My question is: can the bank hold up the process of settling the estate because of the guarantor thing? Dad's plan was to evenly split his estate between all his children and give some to charity but there won't be anything left if my sister has her way!

Megan

Hi Megan,

To answer your question correctly, I’d need to read both the bank guarantee that your father signed, and his will. Yet that’s a job for a specialist estate planning lawyer, who can take into account all of these issues and plan your father’s wishes accordingly. The only problem is, a lot of men don’t like thinking about their wills (some believe it’s tempting fate).

So you need to give your old man a bit of motivation. If I were in your shoes, I’d give him the heads up: as it currently stands the reading of his will may resemble a scene from the Game Of Thrones. Gently explain to him that it will be much better if he sets everyone straight now once and for all … no matter what he decides to do with his money.

Scott

The Chicago Bull

Hi Scott,

I have a terrible credit rating. I'm 45 and only have a couple of thousand dollars in savings, and $6k in super. I also have have $15k in credit card debt. I earn $800 a week. My question is, when is the right time to enter the housing market?

Chris

Chris,

You’re like a middle-aged tubby little fella limbering up to have a crack at the NBA! Dude, you’ve got no savings, fifteen grand in plastic, and you’re earning below the average wage. Right now you’ve got as much chance of buying a house than being drafted to the Chicago Bulls. So let’s keep it real. You first need to increase your income, then knock out your debts, build up your savings, and only then will you be ready to shoot for the stars.

Scott

Scott’s Hot Date

Dear Scott,

At 17 I am currently completing my VCE studies, but will soon have to make my own way in the world. I have $7,000 in savings and was hoping you would be able to help me find the right way to invest it so I do not just burn through it right after graduation. I am constantly anxious I will not have enough money to do all that I want, namely paying for living expenses, travel and study.

Holly

Hi Holly

Where were girls like you when I was seventeen? I would have dated you in a heartbeat!

Keep at least $5,000 in an online saver account (which Barefooters call Mojo). The return you’ll get on your Mojo is peace of mind. When you graduate, look at getting a full-time job over the summer -- preferably one that you can continue when you go to university.

If you’re living at home, you should be able to save up a few thousand dollars for your upfront expenses next year. Depending on your parents’ income, there’s also a chance you could get Youth Allowance.

My final tip is a strange one. In fact, you’re probably going to think I’m completely bonkers, but think about doing it anyway: go to kiva.org/team/thebarefootinvestor and lend some money (as little as $25) to a struggling businesswoman in the third world.

There is no need for you to be constantly anxious. You’re not only well ahead of most girls your age, you’re also one of the wealthiest women on the planet. You’ve got this.

Scott

Death, Taxes … and HECS

Hey Scott,

In your book you mentioned that HECS debt dies with you. My wife passed away in 2011 -- and the $15,000 she owed rocked up bang on settlement of her estate. So I paid it, on advice from my lawyer. Is there any way to get this back if I paid it unnecessarily?

Harry

Hi Harry,

The executor of your wife’s estate was legally required to lodge a tax return up to the date of her death, which would have included the compulsory HECS-HELP debt repayments up to that date. The balance of her HECS-HELP debt would then have officially been written off by a (weeping) ScoMo.

So if your lawyer instructed you to pay off the entire debt, you got the wrong advice. I’d be calling the lawyer up and explaining the situation, and asking them to lodge an objection with the Tax Office so you can have the funds returned. And I’d expect the lawyer to do it gratis.

Scott

We’re in a Pickle

Hi Scott,

My boyfriend bought a one-bedroom apartment in Brisbane’s inner city three years ago for $404,000. We are in desperate need of more space and would like to sell, but a recent valuation has put it at $320,000. With $350,000 still owing on the mortgage and only $20,000 in savings, this puts us in a pickle. Renting the place out will not cover the mortgage, and by the look of Brisbane’s property market the value may continue to decrease. What is the best way to deal with this situation?

Anita

Hi Anita,

The way you’ve written your question tells me you want to sell: you’re ‘desperate’ for more space, renting the place isn’t an option, and you’re worried the apartment will drop further in price. All of these things may well be true, and if they are, you should save up the shortfall and sell. However, it was only three years ago that your boyfriend bought this joint. So before you crystalise the significant loss, I’d want to understand why he bought it in the first place. What was his plan at the time?

Scott

The Secret Credit Card

Dear Scott,

I am at my wits’ end. My husband is a spender who leaves me to pay all the bills, including a car loans of $17,000, a mortgage of $239,000, and an ever-spiralling credit card debt -- currently $38,000. Actually that’s not quite right. I have just discovered he has another credit card on which he owes $20,000! Of course I asked him how we can possibly pay this back, but I still have not heard an answer.

Nikki

Hi Nikki,

He’s cheating on you.

Financially, he’s cheating on you.

You haven’t given me enough information on your financial situation, but experience tells me he’s addicted to something -- most likely gambling.

So, I want you to do three things:

First, go to the bank, and put a stop on all the credit cards (ask him if there are any others), and request detailed account statements.

Second, sit down with your husband. Don’t bother asking him how he’s going to pay the money back -- he has no freaking idea -- if he did, he wouldn’t have racked up a $58,000 debt in the first place. Instead, just go through the statements, and work out where he’s spending the money, and why.

Finally, and based on how the chat goes, you should book in to see either a gambling counsellor (1800 858 858) or a financial counsellor (1800 007 007), and definitely a relationship counsellor (1300 364 277).

Scott

Parents, You’re Doing it Wrong

When I was fifteen I would sit in English class and read the Financial Review.(This, of course, made me wildly popular with the ladies.)

Looking back on it I was always going to become the Barefoot Investor: I started working when I was in primary school (for coins!), and had built a prized share portfolio by high school.

Most teenagers don’t give a snapchat about managing their money.

That was confirmed this week by the results of an international financial literacy survey of nearly 15,000 students which found that, on average, 15-year-old Aussie kids struggle to understand financial basics.

“Australian students performed significantly lower in financial literacy than [international] students with similar performance in mathematical and reading literacy”, said the report.

And parents, you know what that means, don’t you?

It means that there’s a real possibility that your grunting, moody, Xboxing teenager could still be fronting up for Coco Pops when they’re in their dirty thirties …  possibly accompanied by their fiscally challenged boyfriend.

That’s actually not too far of a stretch: nearly 25 per cent of people aged 20 to 34 continue to live with their parentals, according to the latest HILDA study. And here’s the kicker: research by AMP found that a kidult (aged between 18 and 24) costs a middle-income family $678 a week, or $35,256 a year.

Froot Loops!

Well, allow me to lay out a Barefoot Bootcamp for your teenagers. Do these three things, and you’ll be able to lovingly boot your kids out when they can grow a beard (or date a man with a beard):

#1 Open Up Your Wallet

I’ve always said that the best way to raise financially fit kids is to be financially strong yourself.

Whether you like it or not, they’re modelling your behaviours: do you fight about money? Do you turn off lights when they’re not needed? Do you gamble?

When your kid turns 18, you don’t throw them the keys to the Jag for the first time, do you?

Of course you don’t.

You spend many (frustrating, potentially lethal) hours sitting beside them with the ‘L’ plates up. Their first experience driving comes with you clinging to the seat beside them.

It should be exactly the same with money.

Look, your kids are being actively targeted by the predators of the banking industry (especially if you signed them up for one of those cute little Commbank Dollarmites accounts). You need to make sure they’ve got their money miles up while they still live with you.

The best way to teach your kids about the reality of money is to give them responsibility.

Challenge them to find a lower-cost energy provider — and make a game out of it. If they can get your household bills down by $500 a year, split the difference.

Show them your bank statements, and again challenge them to find a better home loan rate, or (gulp) calculate the amount of interest you’re being whacked on your credit card.

Actually read your super statement, and have your kids calculate the amount of fees you’re paying, and see if they can find a cheaper alternative via superratings.com.au. Then head over to moneysmart.gov.au and check out their managed fund fees calculator to visualise the amount of money you could save by switching.

These are the real-life lessons that will stick with your kids.

#2 Flip it Good!

These days kids get participation trophies. Everyone’s a winner!

Uh-huh.

Kids need to understand that the world isn’t there to serve them — it’s the other way around.

Thankfully there’s an easy fix to this counter-culture: make them get a part-time job.

Every teenager should have a part-time job … preferably with a boss who doesn’t treat them like a unique special snowflake, and one that gives them a bit of acne from flipping greasy burgers.

Again, making them work isn’t really about the work, and it isn’t really about the money — it’s just another tool to give them real-world financial education. They learn to show up on time and work. To get along with other people. To deal with a tough boss (hopefully). To read an employment contract, and, if you’re doing your job right, to choose a good super fund.

This shouldn’t be an elective — it’s an essential part of their formal education. When I’m hiring a young person for my business, I can always pick who has had a part-time job through school. They’re more resilient.

#3 She’s Got a Ticket to Ride

Straight up, buying your teenager a brand new car amounts to child abuse.

Don’t do it.

The pull of owning your own wheels is strong with teenagers — especially boys. Use it. Again, hopefully you’re seeing a theme here. It’s not about the car, it’s just another tool for teaching.

So sit down and challenge your teen to save up for their first car. In reality this could involve you matching them dollar for dollar, so they don’t end up driving around in a 1966 XP Falcon like I did (safety features? Lap seatbelts). Have them research the running costs of various models, how much it costs to insure, and how to negotiate a good price.

I’m biased of course, but I see these financial literacy findings as just as important as the final year marks.

Why?

Because it’s the one skill every student will be tested on — daily — in the real world. A below average grade in money management colors your entire life; what you do for a career, the amount of time you have to spend working, the stress you will endure over your working life, your relationships, your health, and ultimately what your last days look like. This is important stuff … so start testing your teens today.

Tread Your Own Path!

A Woman Is Not a Financial Plan

Dear Scott,

I am 22 and have independently bought my home ($207,000 owing), have $5,000 in Mojo, have $7,000 in other savings, and have no debt besides HECS and the mortgage. My (fairly new) boyfriend earns $53,000 and has a car loan of $25,000 and few savings. He is kind and generous but a spender, whereas I am a saver. As the relationship gets more serious, how can I protect my assets and encourage him to develop healthier financial habits? To reverse your saying, a woman is not a financial plan!

Natalie

Hi Natalie,

If you end up shacking up with him, you could protect yourself by having him sign a cohabitation agreement. Though that would be kind of weird -- don’t you think?

It’s a bit like buying a dog that you’re secretly worried will one day go feral and bite your hand off.

Better to just not sleep with dogs.

Still, let’s give the bloke a break. He could just be young, dumb, and full of credit. He wouldn’t be the first fella to fall into the trap of trying to impress a young filly by flashing his (borrowed) cash.

So, explain to him that this approach may work with girls -- but it doesn’t wash with a confident woman like you. If he really wants to impress you, tell him he can start by becoming debt free. And if it works out you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, drop him off at the pound.

Now, if you’ve got to the bottom of my answer, and you’re thinking to yourself, ‘you’re being a bit of a hard arse Barefoot’, read the next question.

Scott

Why Are You Randy?

Dear Mr Pape,

I enjoyed your book. However, as a non-native speaker, there were things that confused me. Could you please explain what “Paint me red and call me Randy” means?

Yu

Hi Yu,

I have no idea what it means either.

Thanks for reading.

Scott

No Such Thing as a Silly Question

Hi Scott,

I am loving your book and have one (probably silly) question. My husband and I, both 40, are tackling a $45,000 credit card debt on $70,000 a year combined income. Most of it is business credit card expenses -- his small business has had a very quiet start to the year. Do we redraw this amount from our mortgage (we have $300,000 in equity), pay off the credit card and start again, or keep chipping away?

Kelly

Hi Kelly,

Yes, you can refinance the debt onto your mortgage to get a lower rate.But there are a few things to remember:

First, it’s no magic wand. You’re eating into your family home, and there are only so many times you can do this.

Second, you’re turning a short-term debt into a long-term debt.

Third, you’re putting a bandaid on a deep gushing wound.

The wound was caused by your husband’s flailing business. Paper-shuffling your debts doesn’t mean it won’t happen again. So I’d sit down with your husband and have what comedian Tom Gleeson calls a ‘hard chat’. If the business doesn’t improve by Christmas, it’s time for hubby to get a job.

Scott