Pregnant and Dumped

Scott,

My husband left me two months ago. I am 24 weeks pregnant with our third child. Since having our first child five years ago, I have been on maternity leave, doing home duties and working one day a week, as it was agreed I would stay home while he worked. Now he is gone and I have all the bills to pay. He is not paying child support as yet, so I am reliant on my Centrelink payments and one day of work. I am a smart woman who just wants a financially secure future for myself and my children. Maybe it is just ‘baby brain’ but I honestly do not know where to start.

Kate

Kate,

I can’t imagine the stress you’re under. Given you’re in the final trimester, you need to focus on just a couple of things: close off your joint bank accounts and credit cards, and apply for a Child Support assessment with the Department of Human Services to see how much your ex-husband needs to pay you. Then, seek legal advice immediately.

Scott